Election Stress, Feeling Overwhelmed by Politics? You’re Not Alone
The Emotional Toll of America’s Political Divide
It's no secret that the political divisions in the United States have become a major source of stress for many people, and it seems like the closer we get to elections, the more intense things feel. Whether you're someone who identifies as a Democrat, a Republican, or somewhere in between, it's easy to get caught up in the constant arguments, debates, and the sense that the other side is doing everything wrong. It's worse because there is one side that lies and is evil.
One of the reasons this is happening is that politics have become so personal. People aren't just talking about different policies or ideas anymore. They're talking about their core beliefs, their values, and even their identities. When politics feels this personal, it's hard not to feel emotionally affected by it all. You might hear things on the news or social media that make you feel like your way of life or the things you care about are under attack. Well, they are under attack. People are experiencing feelings of fear, frustration, and sometimes even hopelessness.
Another thing adding to the stress is the constant stream of information. We are bombarded with news and opinions all day long, whether it's from TV, social media, or even conversations with friends and family. Many of us feel overwhelmed. In fact, it's hard to know what's true or who to trust. The constant exposure to misinformation is psychologically damaging. The upcoming election is background noise that increases anxiety and worry in our everyday lives. All of this stress is especially damaging to those who are predisposed to fear, worry, and depression.
The division between Democrats and Republicans has also created tension and alienation within marriages and families. People who have been friends for many years and don't see eye to eye on current political issues find themselves in heated arguments. Many of these friendships end. Even worse, family members become so enraged that they sever relations. Many feel like they're constantly walking on eggshells around people they care about.
Many people are also feeling a sense of powerlessness. With all the shouting from both sides, it can sometimes feel like nothing is really getting better and that we, as individuals, don't have much control over the bigger picture.
So, what can people do about all this emotional and psychological stress tied to politics? First, it's important to recognize that it's okay to feel stressed. These are challenging times, and it's normal to have strong emotions about issues that matter deeply. But it's also helpful to take breaks from the constant news cycle and remind ourselves that not everything needs to be about politics. Finding moments of calm and connecting with others on non-political topics can be a big relief.
It also helps to keep conversations respectful and try to listen more, even when we disagree. The more we talk to people with different viewpoints, the more we can understand where they're coming from, and that can sometimes take the edge off the intensity of our emotions. At the end of the day, most people, regardless of political party, want what they believe is best for their families and communities. Remembering that common ground can go a long way in reducing stress and tension.
What is most important is to take care of ourselves emotionally and physically. We need to protect ourselves, our families, and our friends by not becoming ensnared in constant arguing.
In the last weeks I have felt a great deal of stress about the election and the news. I don’t have a TV but have been tethered to the news on my car radio and the Internet. So, a few days ago I decided to tamp down my contact with these sources. When I am in the car, I only listen to classical or spa music. I look at CNN online perhaps once a day. I have amped up my writing non political material though I am reposting some earlier election essays. In fact, I have decided that on Election Day, I will go to bed early and read about the election in the morning. These steps should help reduce the election stress.
I like what you say at the end that we should listen to other people even when we disagree. Sadly not many people do this these days.