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Monica P.'s avatar

The older I get the more patient I have become. Empathy goes hand in hand with patience.

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Pamela Leavey's avatar

I am definitely more patient now Monica!

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Janice Walton's avatar

85 years old - still impatient - and still working on it.

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

Janice, about to be 82 in October and still impatient. I'm also working on it and one thing I find helpful is guided medition, just for a few minutes each day.

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Dr. Wallace. Embody Evolution's avatar

Beautiful poem and writing. Yes, this.

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

Audrey thank you

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Pamela Leavey's avatar

Great Emerson quote Allan!

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

Pamela it means a lot to me

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Pamela Leavey's avatar

You appear here to be a very patient person Allan. I was not as patient when I was young. I am more so now, but have my moments!

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

Trust I also still have my moments

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

I agree

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Marc Friedman's avatar

“Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.” Jean Jacques Rousseau

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Dr. Jeff Perron, C.Psych's avatar

Nice post.

It sometimes feels "irresponsible" to be patient - or, "do nothing" - especially in the face of problems. Embracing patience helps pull back from the "fixing" reflex.

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

You are correct. I am now into meditation and it helps. I enjoy writing and I’ve been advised to ignore negative stuff and I have to try harder and must learn to ignore politics and I hate politics anyway. Derek thanks for responding. It helps me.

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

YES, Everyone I know is telling me the same thing as you are being told and resolved to do: ignore what is said about Gaza, and American politics and etc and that is what I am doing. I am not going to read any posts about Gaza, Israel but I'm incluing what is happening here in the U.S. I've had it. I'm done. I'm posting an essay, tomorow, about "mastering reality." We make our own world in our minds. I choose to go with meditation and letting go of all this negative stuff. So, I agree and we will keep in touch. Allan

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DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD's avatar

Derek, I hope you read what I posted today. I am learning from you.

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