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Ian, great comment. I think we, in the West are all screwed up about touching, hugging, etc.

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Sep 16Liked by DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD

Thanks Allan. I wonder about the impact of the commercial sexualisation of so much touch in our modern western societies. One is that in workplaces many don't feel comfortable to hug or place a caring hand on a shoulder for fear of misinterpretation. I know it is complex. Thanks again Allan.

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Sep 17Liked by DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD

Really interesting stuff here. I think this is why solitary confinement is such a brutal form of punishment as well. I think that here in the U.S. we have some odd ideas about touch and it has been detrimental to our society.

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I could not agree more.

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Sep 16Liked by DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD

Thanks for this, Allan. I always kissed and hugged my kids and held their hands, and still do it even though they are middle-aged.

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Oh yes, me as well

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Sep 16Liked by DocTalk, Allan N Schwartz PhD

Great write-up! May get the book.

Thank you

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I would advise to get it. It's really good.

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